Who's That Girl?

I didn’t always understand what serenity truly meant. I thought it was something reserved for meditation retreats, quiet beaches, or the pages of poetry. I often debated going on one of those “life changing” adventures all in hopes of achieving that blissful state of serenity.  But serenity isn’t about escape—it’s about presence. It’s about learning to be calm within the storm, not waiting for the storm to pass.

Serenity begins when we start to release what we cannot control. It deepens when we let go of the past and stop obsessing over the future. It lives in the now—in the quiet moments between thoughts, in the softness of a breath, in the way sunlight filters through the window on a slow afternoon. In just relinquishing your power and letting life guide you through and trusting in yourself along the way. 

This past year, I’ve discovered that serenity is not found—it’s cultivated. It comes from the small daily choices to protect your energy, speaking kindly to yourself, moving with intention, and remaining grounded despite the noise. It’s walking away from what drains you and leaning into what restores you. 

Serenity doesn’t come from a perfect life. It comes from not being shaken by every ripple. It means you’ve built a steady place within yourself—or found people who help you return to it. Like having a restart or recharge button, always within reach.

If you’ve been longing for peace—real, unshakable peace—start by carving out small moments for stillness. Pause before reacting. Breathe before responding. Simplify what you can. Be gentle with your heart. Surround yourself with the people, places, and things that feel serene. You deserve to feel calm. You deserve to feel safe in your own mind. You deserve serenity—not someday, but now.

I’m so grateful to have found, and to be surrounded by, people who quiet the noise in my mind—the ones who help slow the rush of overwhelming thoughts. Somehow, the hard days feel easier now. That serenity within and around me is what carries me through. And I truly believe everyone deserves to find that.

In this new life, I’ve discovered a quiet kind of peace—where hope rises gently, dreams take root, and the future finally feels like a place I belong.

Wishing you that same serene gift.

xo LM